American Adventures from East to West!

 Travel destinations sorted by my 90 day journey Trip in autumn and early winter Planning a trip to the east and south coasts this fall and winter? Here's a guide to cities you should consider based on a combination of overall rating, safety and friendliness. Whether you long for a bustling metropolis or a quieter beach town, we have this comprehensive overview for you.

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Index 

1. 1 New York
2. 2 Philadelphia
3. 3 Washington DC
4. 4 myrtle beach 
5. 5 Charleston
6. 6 Daytona 
7. 7 Miami
8. 8 Tampa bay
9. 9 Atlanta 
10. 10 Chattanooga               
11. 11 Nashville 
12. 12 Memphis 
13. 13 New Orleans 
14. 14 Houston 
15. 15 San Antonio                 
16. 16 Dallas 
17. 17 Las vegas 
18. 18 Grand Canyon 
19. 19 Los Angeles
20. 20 Orange county  
21. 21 San Francisco   
22. 22 Bakersfield         
23. 23 Barstow.   

1. New York City (October 1-6) 

* Rating: 10 * safety : 4 * friendliness: 8 

My New York Adventure: Staying at a Local Hostel and Making Lifelong Friends

New York City—one of those places that’s bigger than life itself. I'd always heard people say, "It’s a city that never sleeps," but living it firsthand was something else entirely. My trip took a turn when I checked into a  local hostel in the heart of queens.

Safety: 4/10

Let's be honest—New York isn't exactly known for its safety, and during my time there, I definitely felt its edge. Some areas were fine, especially during the day, but after dark, things can get sketchy. Walking around after sunset, even in relatively tourist-friendly neighborhoods, often left me feeling on edge and always kept my guard up, especially when passing through less-populated areas. But honestly, it’s a city where you can never truly let your guard down. It's not a place to wander carelessly, but if you're street-smart, you'll manage.

Friendliness: 8/10

The best part of my trip, by far, was the people I met. The hostel became a hub of new connections, and I was lucky enough to meet fellow travelers who became great friends. We shared stories, explored the city together, and laughed and drank. From the friendly bar tender to the fellow backpackers who invited me to join,  I never once felt like a stranger. The friendships I made there turned a solo trip into an experience I’ll never forget.

New York, for all its hustle and bustle, has a way of bringing people together. Despite the city's overwhelming size and fast-paced nature, it’s easy to find your own little corner of warmth and connection—especially when you're staying at a local hostel, where you never know what friendships or adventures might come next.

In the end, my New York trip wasn’t just about the sights and sounds, but about the people I met and the memories we created together. It’s a city that challenges you, but also rewards you with the kind of camaraderie that makes the adventure truly unforgettable.

Accommodation stayed: 

The Local NY (hostel)

Long Island 

2. Philadelphia (October 6-11) 

* Rating: 8 * safety: 5 * friendliness: 8 

My Philly Adventure: Exploring Old City and the Heart of the City 

Philadelphia—I stayed in Old City, right in the heart of the action, where cobblestone streets meet hip spots and historic landmarks. The hostel I called home was surrounded by everything I wanted to see, and it quickly became my base for exploring this tough but welcoming city.

Safety: 5/10

Philly has its rougher sides. Old City felt safe during the day and even into the night, but the further you get from the tourist areas, the more cautious you need to be. Some parts of the city definitely have a sketchy vibe, and I made sure to stay aware. I stuck to well-lit streets, avoided the quieter areas after dark, and kept my guard up. But it wasn’t anything I couldn’t handle. The city’s got a gritty side, but as long as you stay sharp, you’re good.

Friendliness: 8/10

What surprised me most was how Philly’s people balanced toughness with real warmth. I met some great people at the hostel—travelers and locals alike—who were down-to-earth and friendly. Whether it was chatting with a locals in Old City or talking with fellow backpackers, there was always a sense of camaraderie. People here don’t waste time, but they’re quick to help out and share a laugh, making the city feel like more than just a stop on the map.

Philly might have a rough edge, but that’s part of its charm. Despite the occasional sketchy vibe, it’s a city full of history, character, and people who know how to live big.

 

Accommodation stayed: 

Apple hostels of Philadelphia 

3. Washington, D.C. (October 11-15) 

* Rating: 8 * safety: 3 * friendliness: 4 

My Washington DC Adventure: History, Politics, and the Real Side of the Capital

Washington, DC—home to political power, monuments, and history at every turn. I came to see the sights, but the city quickly showed me there’s more to it than just the Capitol and the National Mall. Staying at a hostel in the city’s downtown area gave me a front-row seat to the hustle of America’s capital, but also introduced me to the tougher, less glamorous side of the city.

Safety: 3/10

DC has a reputation for being hit-or-miss when it comes to safety. Some neighborhoods, especially around the National Mall and the major tourist areas, felt fine. But as soon as you step outside those zones, things can get sketchy. I had to stay sharp, particularly at night when some areas felt deserted or a bit too quiet. I avoided certain neighborhoods after dark, and made sure to stick to well-lit, busy streets. It’s not the safest place if you’re not paying attention, but if you keep your wits about you, it’s manageable.

Friendliness: 4/10

DC’s friendliness wasn’t exactly what I expected. The vibe here is more business than community. People tend to keep to themselves, whether you’re walking down the street or grabbing coffee. I didn’t find many people eager to chat or offer help—most were focused on their own agendas. At the hostel, the atmosphere was similar: people kept to their own groups or did their own thing. It wasn’t cold, exactly, but definitely not the warm, open vibe I’ve found in other cities. It’s a place where everyone’s moving fast, and you kind of have to find your own way.

Despite the safety concerns and the more reserved attitude of the locals, Washington, DC has an undeniable energy. It’s a city built on power, history, and ambition. You’ve got to stay alert and embrace the pace, but the monuments, museums, and sense of purpose around every corner make it an experience worth having.

Accommodation stayed: 

Duo nomad 

4. Myrtle Beach (October 15-20) 

* Rating: 4 * safety: 4 * friendliness: 2 

My Myrtle Beach Experience: Sun, Sand, and Struggles

Myrtle Beach—known for its endless coastline, tourist traps, and a place to kick back. But my trip there was a bit of a mixed bag. While it’s famous for its resorts and boardwalk, I quickly realized this place has more than its fair share of challenges.

Safety: 4/10

Safety in Myrtle Beach felt iffy at best. Some areas near the beach seemed fine during the day, but as the sun set, things took a turn. I had to be cautious, especially after dark when parts of the beach and surrounding areas felt deserted. Even in some of the busier spots, there was a sense that you need to keep your eyes open and watch your back. It’s a place where you can enjoy yourself, but you’ll definitely want to stay alert.

Friendliness: 2/10

The friendliness in Myrtle Beach? Nearly nonexistent. Whether it was locals or fellow tourists, I rarely felt welcomed. Everyone seemed too caught up in their own thing. From restaurants to the boardwalk, I didn’t encounter a single person who was genuinely warm or eager to strike up a conversation. The service was often indifferent, and it didn’t feel like a place where you’d naturally connect with others. It was the type of atmosphere where you’re just another face in the crowd.

Myrtle Beach is a place with potential, but it’s tough to ignore its downsides. Between the safety concerns and the lack of friendliness, it wasn’t the relaxing beach getaway I’d hoped for. If you’re looking for a place to just chill and don’t mind the occasional hassle, it might suit you—but for me, it left a lot to be desired.

Accommodation stayed: 

The Atlantic hotel

 

5. Charleston (October 20-23) 

* Rating: 9 * safety: 6 * friendliness: 6 

My Charleston Experience: Charm, History, and a Few Hiccups

Charleston—steeped in history, Southern charm, and a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere. I stayed at a local hostel in the heart of the city, which gave me the perfect base to explore the city’s cobblestone streets, historic sites, and waterfront views. While Charleston is often praised for its beauty and warmth, my trip had its ups and downs.

Safety: 6/10

Charleston felt generally safe, especially in the historic downtown area where I spent most of my time. However, some neighborhoods outside the main tourist zones had a less comforting vibe, particularly after dark. I made sure to stick to well-lit streets and avoid more isolated areas once the sun went down. It wasn’t a place where I felt constantly worried, but you definitely need to keep your guard up in certain spots.

Friendliness: 6/10

The friendliness of Charleston was decent, but not overwhelming. The locals were polite enough, but I didn’t experience the level of Southern hospitality I was expecting. People were generally more reserved—maybe just the pace of life down there. At the hostel, I met a few travelers who were great to hang out with, but there wasn’t much interaction with locals outside of basic exchanges. It felt like a place where you could connect if you tried, but it wasn’t exactly easy or warm.

Charleston has a lot to offer in terms of charm and beauty, and despite some safety concerns and a somewhat lukewarm atmosphere, it’s definitely worth a visit. The city’s history, architecture, and food scene make it stand out, but if you’re looking for deep connections or a totally carefree experience, you might need to dig a little deeper. Overall, I enjoyed my time, but it wasn’t the effortless Southern escape I had envisioned.

Accommodation stayed: 

Charlestons notSo hostel 

6. Daytona Beach (October 23-26) 

* Rating: 4 * safety: 4 * friendliness: 7 

My Daytona Beach Experience: Sun, Sand, and Surprises

Daytona Beach—a place known for its racing history, beachside bars, and laid-back vibe. I came for the ocean, but I quickly learned Daytona has a lot more than just a nice beach to offer—some good, some not so much.

Safety: 4/10

Daytona Beach didn’t feel the safest, especially outside the main tourist spots. The beach itself was fine during the day, but I didn’t feel comfortable wandering around at night. Some areas, particularly a bit further from the main strip, had a sketchy feel to them, and I always kept my guard up. The overall vibe was mixed—busy and bustling in some places, but others were a little too quiet for comfort after dark. It’s not the worst, but definitely not a city to relax your vigilance.

Friendliness: 7/10

The friendliness in Daytona Beach was surprisingly decent. While not everyone went out of their way to be warm, I had a few good encounters with locals. From bartenders offering recommendations to beachgoers striking up casual conversations, there was an easy-going vibe if you engaged with people. It wasn’t the most welcoming city I’ve visited, but it wasn’t as cold as I expected either. If you’re open to it, you’ll find enough friendly faces to make the experience enjoyable.

Daytona Beach isn’t the perfect vacation spot, but it has its moments. Between the safety concerns and the hit-or-miss friendliness, it’s a place you’ll want to approach with some caution. Still, the beach and the people who do embrace it will give you enough to appreciate during your stay. It’s just not the easiest place to fully unwind without a few bumps along the way.

Accommodation stayed: 

Sleep inn ormond beach 

7. Miami (October 26 - October 31) 

* Rating: 9 * safety: 10 * friendliness: 10 

My Miami Adventure: Sun, Culture, and Unforgettable Nights

Miami—where vibrant culture, beautiful beaches, and nightlife collide. I stayed in a lively hostel in the heart of South Beach, which turned out to be the perfect base for exploring the city’s electric energy. From the beaches to the clubs, and especially the colorful streets of Little Havana, Miami didn’t disappoint.

Safety: 10/10

Miami felt incredibly safe, especially in the main tourist areas like South Beach and downtown. The hostel was in a prime location, and I always felt comfortable walking around day or night. Even when I ventured out to the quieter parts of the city, the overall vibe was secure. Miami's infrastructure and the attention given to tourists' safety made it easy to explore without constantly worrying about your surroundings.

Friendliness: 10/10

The friendliness in Miami was off the charts. From the moment I checked into the hostel, I was greeted by a mix of travelers and locals who were eager to share their favorite spots. The staff at the hostel were welcoming and gave me great tips on where to go. And the people in the city? They were friendly and warm, from bartenders who made sure I had the best cocktails to strangers who offered to show me around. Miami’s energy is contagious, and it’s a place where you feel like you’re instantly part of the action.

One of the highlights of my trip was visiting Little Havana. The colors, the music, the aroma of Cuban coffee—Little Havana is an explosion of culture. I spent hours exploring the vibrant streets, chatting with locals, and sampling Cuban food. The atmosphere was great, it felt like I was walking through a different time and place. 

And then, there were the nightclubs in Wynwood—absolutely wild. Miami’s nightlife is legendary, and I was lucky enough to experience it firsthand. The clubs were packed with energy, the music was nonstop, and the crowd was buzzing with excitement. Whether it was a deep house set or a Latin-inspired DJ, the clubs in Wynwood know how to keep the party going until sunrise. It’s the kind of place where everyone’s dancing, and the vibe is nothing short of electric.

Miami exceeded all my expectations. With a perfect balance of safety, friendly faces, and unforgettable experiences, it’s a city that truly has it all. From Little Havana’s rich culture to the nightlife in Wynwood, this city knows how to show you a good time. If you’re looking for adventure, connection, and excitement, Miami is definitely the place to be.

Accommodation stayed: 

Viajaro Miami hostel 

8. Tampa bay(October 31November 3) 

Rating: 9 * safety: 8 * friendliness: 9 

My Tampa Bay Adventure: Unexpected Pleasures and Hidden Gems

Tampa Bay—when I first arrived, I wasn’t sure what to expect. Known for its beaches and sports, it seemed like just another Florida city. But I quickly discovered that Tampa has a charm all its own, full of surprises and local treasures. My stay at a local hostel made it even better, offering a perfect base to explore this underrated gem of a city.

Safety: 8/10

Tampa Bay felt surprisingly safe, with its neighborhoods offering a nice mix of security and convenience. The downtown area was busy and well-lit, and I always felt comfortable walking around, even at night. Some parts of the city, like the waterfront areas, felt especially welcoming. While there are a few quieter spots that might feel a little sketchy after dark, I never encountered any serious issues. Overall, it’s a city where you can relax and enjoy yourself without constantly watching your back.

Friendliness: 9/10

The friendliness of Tampa Bay blew me away. From the moment I checked into the hostel, the staff was incredibly welcoming and full of recommendations. But it wasn’t just the hostel staff—locals were genuinely kind, always willing to chat or help with directions. Whether it was a bartender sharing the best local spots or people I met on the street, everyone was approachable. The vibe in Tampa bay is laid-back but warm, and it made my experience feel like I was part of the community, not just a visitor passing through.

One of the highlights of my trip was spending time in Ybor City, Tampa’s historic district. The area is full of character—cobblestone streets, quirky shops, and cigar bars that feel like stepping back in time. I wandered around, taking in the sights, and found a few local spots where the food and drinks were great.

Another unexpected gem was Tampa’s waterfront. Whether I was exploring the Riverwalk or taking in the sunset from a quiet pier, the city’s waterfront had this peaceful energy. It wasn’t overrun with tourists, and I found a perfect spot to just unwind and soak it all in. I also spent an afternoon checking out the museums and parks in the area, which gave me a deeper appreciation for Tampa’s mix of history and modern vibes.

Tampa Bay turned out to be one of those cities that’s easy to fall in love with once you let it surprise you. The safety, warmth of the locals, and unexpected charm made this trip one of my best. It’s a city that might not always be on the tourist radar, but it’s one that definitely deserves more attention. If you’re looking for a relaxed, friendly place to explore, Tampa Bay is a fantastic choice.

Accommodation stayed: 

Palm villa hostel

9. Atlanta (November 3–November 7) 

* Rating: 5 * safety: 2 * friendliness: 9

My Atlanta Experience: A City of Contrasts

Atlanta—a city known for its history, culture, and southern charm. But my time there was a lot different than I expected. I stayed in one of the more rundown areas, which gave me a firsthand look at the city’s rougher side. While there were plenty of things to enjoy, my stay in the ghetto really shaped my experience, for better and for worse.

Safety: 2/10

Safety was definitely a concern. I chose to stay in a more affordable area, but it quickly became clear that I had to stay alert at all times. The neighborhood wasn’t the safest, with a lot of abandoned buildings and areas that felt deserted after dark. Even during the day, I kept my head on a swivel. It’s not the kind of place where you can wander around carelessly. I stuck to the main streets and made sure to head back to my place before it got too late. Atlanta’s reputation for crime definitely wasn’t exaggerated in the area I was in, and I quickly learned to be cautious.

Friendliness: 9/10

The one bright spot was the people. Despite the rough surroundings, the locals were incredibly friendly and welcoming. Whether I was grabbing food from a corner store or chatting with people on the street, there was a sense of warmth that made the experience feel more personal. Everyone I met was willing to share tips on where to go and what to see, and even though the neighborhood felt tough, the people in it made me feel like I belonged. It was clear that Southern hospitality is alive and well in Atlanta, even in the less glamorous parts of town.

overall, my time in Atlanta was a bit of a wake-up call. The contrast between the friendly locals and the gritty neighborhood I stayed in was striking. The safety issues made it hard to fully relax, but the warmth of the people helped balance things out. If you’re planning to visit, just know that Atlanta has its rough edges—and you need to stay alert, especially if you end up in the more troubled areas.

Accommodation stayed: 

Atlanta quite comfortable private 

10. Chattanooga (Nov 7–November 11) 

* Rating: 10 * safety: 10 * friendliness: 10 

My Chattanooga Experience: The Perfect Southern Escape

Chattanooga—what a surprise! I arrived with no expectations, and left absolutely charmed by everything this small Southern city has to offer. From its stunning natural beauty to the incredibly welcoming locals, my stay was nothing short of perfect. I stayed in a cozy, locally-owned spot that felt like home from the moment I arrived, and I quickly realized that Chattanooga is one of those hidden gems you don’t want to leave.

Safety: 10/10

Safety was a non-issue in Chattanooga. From the moment I set foot in the city, I felt at ease. Whether I was walking along the scenic Tennessee Riverwalk or exploring the downtown area, I was never concerned about my surroundings. The city feels incredibly safe, with well-lit streets and a real sense of community. I walked around after dark with no worries, which made my stay that much more relaxing. It’s the kind of place where you can truly let your guard down and enjoy the moment.

Friendliness: 10/10

The friendliness in Chattanooga was off the charts. Everywhere I went, I was greeted with warm smiles and genuine hospitality. Whether I was at a café, a local shop, or just walking down the street, it was clear that people here take pride in their city and want you to feel welcome. The locals are down-to-earth, kind, and always ready to share their love for Chattanooga with visitors. It’s the kind of place where people strike up conversations, offer recommendations, and make you feel like you’re part of the community from the moment you arrive.

One of the highlights of my trip was spending time at Lookout Mountain, which offers breathtaking views of the city and the surrounding area. I also made sure to visit ruby falls, which was fun. The city is surrounded by natural beauty, and there are so many outdoor activities to enjoy.

Chattanooga’s charm doesn’t just lie in its sights—it’s the people who make it truly special. It’s a city that blends history, nature, and southern hospitality into one unforgettable experience. I couldn’t have asked for a better trip, and if you’re looking for a place where safety, warmth, and beauty come together, Chattanooga is the perfect choice.

Accommodation stayed: 

Hotel bo 

11. Nashville (November 11-15) 

* Rating: 9 * safety: 9 * friendliness: 9 

My Nashville Experience: Music, Charm, and Southern Hospitality

Nashville—known as Music City, where the beats of country, rock, and blues fill the air and the energy is always high. I spent a few days in this lively city, staying at a local hotel that gave me easy access to all the action. Nashville didn’t just live up to its reputation; it surpassed it in every way.

Safety: 9/10

Safety in Nashville was top-notch. Whether I was walking down Broadway, exploring the area , or just hanging out in a local bars, I felt secure the entire time. The city is clean, well-maintained, and has a real sense of safety, even late at night. I never had to worry about my surroundings, which allowed me to fully immerse myself in everything Nashville has to offer. It’s definitely a city you can walk around and enjoy without constantly looking over your shoulder.

Friendliness: 9/10

The people in Nashville are just as welcoming as you’ve heard. Whether it was chatting with bartenders at a honky-tonk bar or asking for directions from a local, everyone was friendly, open, and eager to share a bit of their city with me. There’s a palpable sense of southern hospitality that makes you feel right at home. It’s a place where people don’t just serve you—they take the time to make you feel welcome. The locals genuinely love their city, and they’re happy to pass that enthusiasm along to visitors.

Nashville’s music scene was everything I hoped for and more. From live performances at iconic spots to hidden gems tucked away in neighborhoods, the sound of live music is constant, and the talent is unmatched. But the city’s charm isn’t just in its music—it’s in the neighborhoods.

I also made sure to visit some of the local landmarks, like the Country Music Hall of Fame , which gave me a deeper appreciation for the city’s music history. But the real magic of Nashville is in its atmosphere—it’s a city that feels alive, with something always happening around every corner.

Nashville truly lived up to its reputation as a music lover’s paradise, and beyond that, it’s a city full of heart and warmth. With its perfect blend of safety, friendliness, and endless entertainment, Nashville is one of those places that leaves you wanting more. If you’re looking for a city that mixes great vibes, great people, and unforgettable music, Nashville should be at the top of your list.

Accommodation stayed: 

Placemakr music row 

 

12. Memphis (November 15-16) 

* Rating: 2 * safety: 1 * friendliness: 8 

My Memphis Experience: History, Struggles, and Moments of Warmth

Memphis—a city rich in musical history and Southern soul, but my experience was far from what I imagined. I stayed in a budget-friendly area near the downtown core. It was a trip full of contrasts—warmth from the locals but challenges when it came to safety.

Safety: 1/10

Safety in Memphis was a serious concern. The city’s reputation for crime is real, and it was something I couldn’t ignore. While places like Beale Street felt manageable, the atmosphere shifted dramatically at night. I was staying in an area that had a rough reputation, and walking around, especially after dark, was not possible. The streets were empty and sketchy, and there were multiple police cars on every corner. It wasn’t uncommon to see a heavy security presence near tourist spots, including airport-style security checkpoints, as if the city was on high alert. Beale Street, though buzzing with energy, felt more like a place under constant surveillance. The heightened security made it clear that Memphis has issues with crime, and it left me on edge, especially at night.

Friendliness: 8/10

Despite the safety concerns, the friendliness of the people in Memphis stood out. The locals were warm, welcoming, and eager to share their love for the city. Whether I was chatting with a bartender on Beale Street or asking for directions, I was consistently met with kindness and pride. People here are proud of their city, despite its challenges, and it was easy to have genuine, down-to-earth conversations with them. They seemed to understand the city’s flaws but also appreciated its deep cultural roots, especially when it comes to music and history.

A few of the highlights included a visit to Graceland, the legendary home of Elvis Presley. The sheer scale of the place and the devotion to Elvis was impressive. Even if you’re not an Elvis fan, the mansion and grounds are a fascinating slice of American pop culture.

Memphis is a city of contrasts—its rich musical legacy and cultural significance are undeniable, but they’re overshadowed by a real struggle with safety and security. While the locals are friendly and eager to show you the heart of their city, the reality of crime and police presence is hard to ignore. If you plan to visit, stick to the tourist areas and stay alert—Memphis has a lot to offer, but it’s a city that requires caution and awareness.

Accommodation stayed: 

Hostel Memphis 

13. New Orleans (November 16-19) 

* Rating: 9 * safety: 8 * friendliness: 8 

My New Orleans Experience: Jazz, Culture, and a Bit of Edge

New Orleans—a city of music, history, and unfiltered energy. I stayed at a hostel called India house, giving me the perfect base to dive into everything this vibrant city has to offer. From the soulful jazz music to the vibrant nightlife, New Orleans was a place full of surprises, but it wasn’t without its challenges.

Safety: 8/10

New Orleans felt generally safe, especially in the well-touristed areas like the French Quarter and Bourbon Street, where there were always plenty of people around. The energy of the city—day or night—is hard to ignore. I encountered a noticeable police presence in some areas, which added a layer of security, but it's a place where staying aware of your surroundings is crucial, especially late at night. The vibe was generally good, but like any major city, there are spots you’ll want to avoid.

Friendliness: 8/10

The friendliness in New Orleans was hit or miss. In tourist-heavy areas, the service was top-notch, and locals were eager to share their recommendations. People were still friendly, but there was a noticeable difference in how locals interacted with outsiders. That said, there was always an openness to chat. The warmth of the people added a lot to the city's charm, but it wasn’t the same level of friendliness I’ve encountered in other Southern cities.

Whether I was at a dive bar or a more upscale venue, the music scene was everything I had hoped for and more.

New Orleans is a city that truly feels alive—every street, every corner has its own personality, and the energy is infectious. The food, the music, and the culture are all deeply intertwined, making it an unforgettable place to visit. But like any great city, it has its edges. While the safety and friendliness were overall positive, the city’s reputation for having a bit of a wild side is true, and I quickly learned to be cautious after dark. If you’re looking for a place full of history, music, and character, New Orleans is the place. Just make sure you stay aware, and you’ll have an unforgettable experience.

Accommodation stayed: 

India house hostel 

14. Houston (November 19-22) 

* Rating: 8 * safety: 8 * friendliness: 8 

My Houston Experience: Sports, Culture, and Southern Hospitality

Houston—a sprawling, diverse city with a mix of southern charm and urban energy. I stayed in a lively neighborhood that gave me easy access to all the city’s highlights. Whether I was checking out the food scene, taking in the culture, or catching an H-Town game, Houston offered a little bit of everything.

Safety: 8/10

Houston felt generally safe, especially in the more tourist-friendly areas like downtown and Midtown. I always felt comfortable, even walking around at night. There were a few spots where I was a bit more cautious, but overall, the city's efforts to keep things secure were clear—there’s a visible police presence in popular areas, and the streets felt well-kept and busy. While you always need to be aware in any big city, I didn’t feel uneasy during my time there.

Friendliness: 8/10

The people in Houston were warm and welcoming, which made the experience all the better. Locals were eager to help, Everyone I met—from bartenders to fellow game-goers—was easygoing and approachable. While it wasn’t the most "over-the-top" friendly city I’ve visited, there was still a noticeable Southern hospitality that made it easy to feel at home.

One of the standout moments of my trip was attending NASA’s Space Center which offers a fascinating look into space exploration. As the official visitor center for NASA’s Johnson Space Center, it features iconic exhibits like the Apollo Mission Gallery, the Saturn V rocket, and the Space Shuttle Independence. Visitors can also explore the future of space with displays on NASA’s Artemis program and Mars missions. Whether you're a space enthusiast or a curious traveler, it’s a must-see destination to experience the history and future of space exploration.

Also a basketball game at the Toyato Centre. The energy in the stadium was great, and being part of the crowd—was an experience I won’t forget. The fans were passionate and friendly, with everyone rallying around the team and having a great time. It gave me a real feel for the city’s love for sports. It's a perfect way to experience the local culture and vibe.

Outside of the game, Houston’s food scene impressed me too. Whether it was BBQ, Tex-Mex, or local favorites, the culinary diversity here is top-tier.

Houston surprised me in the best way. It’s a city that mixes sports, culture, and Southern warmth into something truly special. Whether you're there for a game, to explore the diverse neighborhoods, or just enjoy the food and music, Houston has a lot to offer. It’s a big city with a friendly vibe, and I left with a strong appreciation for all it has to offer.

Accommodation stayed: 

Express inn

15. San Antonio (November 22-25) 

* Rating: 10 * safety: 9 * friendliness: 9 

My San Antonio Experience: History, Charm, and Warmth

San Antonio—a city that blends rich history, vibrant culture, and that undeniable Texan warmth. I stayed in a cozy spot near the heart of the city, which made it easy to explore everything this iconic Texan city has to offer. From the historic Alamo to the beautiful River Walk, San Antonio was a place I didn’t want to leave.

Safety: 9/10

Safety in San Antonio was excellent. I spent a lot of time walking around the River Walk, checking out the Alamo, and exploring different neighborhoods, and I always felt secure. The main tourist areas are well-lit and busy, especially in the evening, and I never once felt uncomfortable, even at night. San Antonio is a city that prioritizes safety for both locals and visitors, with a noticeable police presence in key areas. While some outer areas may be less busy, I never had any issues during my stay. It’s a city where you can easily relax and enjoy your time without constantly worrying about your surroundings.

Friendliness: 9/10

The friendliness of the people in San Antonio was one of the highlights of my trip. Locals were incredibly welcoming, eager to share tips on where to eat, what to see, and even chat about the city’s history. Whether I was at a restaurant, walking along the River Walk, everyone I met was genuinely warm and made me feel like a part of the community. The Southern hospitality in San Antonio is real, and it’s clear that the city takes pride in making visitors feel at home.

One of the biggest highlights was the River Walk—a beautiful network of paths along the San Antonio River, lined with shops, restaurants, and bars. It’s a great place to stroll, grab a bite, and soak in the atmosphere. I also spent time visiting the Alamo, which is a must-see for anyone coming to the city. Walking through such an iconic piece of history gave me a deeper understanding of San Antonio’s past and its significance in American history.

San Antonio surprised me with how much it had to offer—rich history, beautiful architecture, great food, and a genuine warmth from the locals. It’s a city that feels both relaxed and vibrant, where you can learn about the past and enjoy the present all in one trip. If you're looking for a city that's safe, friendly, and full of character, San Antonio should definitely be on your list.

Accommodation stayed: 

Express inn 

16. Dallas (November 25-November 29) 

* Rating: 8 * safety: 7 * friendliness: 9 

My Dallas Experience: Cowboys, Culture, and Diversity

Dallas—a city where big dreams, big football games, and big personalities come together. I stayed in a central part of the city, making it easy to hit up both the iconic spots and the less touristy parts of town. Dallas surprised me in a lot of ways, from the excitement of an NFL Cowboys game to the rich cultural diversity that gives the city a unique flavor.

Safety: 7/10

Safety in Dallas was a mixed bag and felt relatively safe, with plenty of people around and a good police presence. However, once I ventured into certain neighborhoods outside the central areas, I didn’t feel quite as comfortable. There were a few spots where things seemed quieter or more isolated, and I was definitely more cautious, especially at night. Dallas is a big city, and like most cities of its size, you have to stay aware of your surroundings. But overall, the city was manageable, and I didn’t have any major safety issues—just some areas where you need to keep your wits about you.

Friendliness: 9/10

The people of Dallas were one of the highlights of my trip. The friendliness and hospitality were off the charts. Locals were eager to chat, and generally made me feel welcome. Whether I was grabbing a bite to eat or asking for directions, the people in Dallas were open and down-to-earth, offering tips with a smile. I was especially impressed by how welcoming the Mexican-American community was—Dallas has a large population of Mexicans, and their influence is everywhere, from the amazing Mexican foodto the cultural landmarks. You get a strong sense of how this blend of cultures shapes the vibe of the city.

One of the most exciting parts of my trip was going to a Dallas Cowboys game at AT&T Stadium. The energy in the stadium was crazy—every seat seemed packed with passionate fans, and the atmosphere was wild. Whether you’re a Cowboys fan or not, you can’t deny the thrill of being part of such a massive event. The sheer scale of the stadium and the excitement of the crowd made it a memorable experience.

Dallas, with its mix of cultures, sports, and southern charm, definitely left an impression. While there are areas that felt a bit less safe, the overall vibe of the city is upbeat, and the people make it a place you want to return to. If you're a sports fan, a lover of great food, or just looking to experience a modern Texas city with a deep cultural mix, Dallas is a city worth exploring.

Accommodation stayed: 

Alexis hotel 

17. Las Vegas 29.-3. December 

Rating: 9 safety: 9  friendliness : 3

Las Vegas is a city known for its bright lights, energy-efficient casinos and world-class entertainment. Tourists flock to the Strip every year eager to experience the magic that is synonymous with Sin City. But if you're a local, the Las Vegas you know is often very different from the glitzy, tourist-oriented world of the Strip. One of the finer aspects of the Las Vegas local experience is its bars, especially those that cater primarily to residents, not tourists. If you're a local, chances are you've found a favorite bar that feels right at home—a comfortable, low-key place where everyone knows your name (or at least your drink order). These bars tend to be off the beaten path, hidden away from the neon-lit streets that attract visitors from all over the world. But the thing is, if you're a tourist, you might find these bars not as welcoming as the glitzy themed lounges advertised on the Strip. Atmosphere of the local bar: Different atmosphere Local Las Vegas bars can feel worlds apart from tourist-packed establishments. They often have a much calmer, more relaxed atmosphere – no elaborate light shows, no costumed staff and no themed cocktails that cost an arm and a leg. These places tend to serve cold beers, well-poured drinks, and the occasional game of pool, but most importantly, they provide a sense of community for the people who call the city home. However, this feeling of intimacy can sometimes translate into exclusivity. While tourists may wander in expecting the same level of service and hospitality they'd find at a luxury Strip resort, they quickly realize they're not the target demographic. After all, the locals have different expectations. They are there to relax, unwind and chat with familiar faces, not to entertain visitors. And while most of the locals are friendly, there's an unspoken understanding that the bar is for those who live here, not those just passing through. An unspoken division It's not that the locals don't like tourists - far from it. In fact, most Las Vegans rely on the tourism industry to keep the city's economy thriving. But there's a certain pride in having a "locals-only" space that feels like a haven from the overwhelming hustle and bustle of the Strip. These bars often feel like little havens where the noise, glitz and glamor of the tourist scene fades away. When a tourist walks in, it can change the dynamic. The familiar hum of conversation may slow down, the volume of laughter may decrease, and a sense of "out of place" may settle in. Locals, perhaps unknowingly, may give the impression that tourists are not so welcome. Maybe it's that subtle eye roll when someone orders a drink that screams "tourist" — like a neon-colored cocktail or a flashy, over-complicated shot. Or maybe there are times when regulars stick to their inner circles and make little effort to engage with anyone outside their social group. This division, subtle as it is, is real. Locals often seek out spaces where they can be themselves, without the performance or expectations that come with catering to tourists. So if you're a tourist hoping to mingle with the locals, you may need to adjust your expectations. 

Accommodation stayed: 

The strat hotel 

18. Grand Canyon 

The Grand Canyon is one of the most breathtaking places on Earth, and the Skywalk, a glass bridge that spans the rim of the canyon, offers a unique view. But there is one big catch that can spoil the experience for many: you are not allowed to bring your own cameras or mobile devices. While this policy is designed to get visitors to buy professional photos taken by staff, it's incredibly frustrating. For many, capturing the moment is an essential part of any memorable trip, and being forced to buy overpriced photos just to have a souvenir seems like a lot to ask, and a fair bit of money too. The breathtaking views are enough to take your breath away, but the limitations of the camera leave a sour aftertaste. It is disappointing that visitors are treated more like potential customers than guests who want to keep the experience their own. While the Grand Canyon offers so much beauty, this camera ban on the Skywalk feels like an unnecessary hindrance to an otherwise memorable adventure. 

19. Los Angeles (December 3–7) 

* Rating : 2 * safety : 8 * friendliness : 1 

My Los Angeles Experience: Glitz, Glamour, and Disappointment

Los Angeles—Hollywood, the beaches, the palm trees, and the stars. I arrived with high hopes, excited to experience the city’s famous energy and see what the hype was all about. But, after spending time there, I quickly realized that LA is a city of extremes—one full of contradictions. The city has so much to offer in terms of sights, but it left me feeling more disappointed than inspired.

Safety: 8/10

One thing LA definitely gets right is safety. The more popular areas like Santa Monica, Venice Beach, and Hollywood Boulevard were generally well-patrolled, well-lit, and busy with people. I never felt unsafe walking around during the day or at night, which was a relief considering the size of the city. Of course, there are sketchy areas, especially outside the major tourist spots, but overall, I felt pretty secure. That said, the city’s sprawling nature means that not all neighborhoods are equal, and some felt far less welcoming than others.

Friendliness: 1/10

Here’s where things fell apart. I’ve never encountered such a stark divide between what a city is supposed to be like and what it actually feels like. Los Angeles is incredibly unfriendly. I’ve traveled to a lot of places, and I’ve never felt the cold, pretentious vibe I encountered here. People in LA seem more interested in their phones or themselves than in actually engaging with others. Whether I was walking around Hollywood, grabbing coffee, or at a local shop, there was this air of aloofness and indifference. Nobody seemed interested in making a connection or helping out unless it directly benefited them. And the worst part? It wasn’t even subtle. The city has a strong undercurrent of superficiality, and that made it hard to feel like I was part of the scene, even though I was right in the middle of it.

One of the reasons LA was such a letdown was the feeling of constant pretense. There’s this overwhelming obsession with appearances, status, and who you know. I visited the Hollywood Walk of Fame, strolled down Rodeo Drive, and checked out Venice Beach, but all I found was a lot of show and very little substance. The city seems obsessed with being “seen” rather than actually experiencing anything meaningful.

To top it all off, the food was nothing to write home about either. The "hipster" cafes and restaurants felt like they were trying too hard to be cool, and the local food scene didn’t live up to the massive expectations I had.

It is just a shame that they have such a pretentious attitude. LA is a city that’s sold as a land of dreams, but the reality often feels cold and shallow. Despite its glitz and glamour, it didn’t have the warmth or authenticity I was hoping for. If you’re looking for a place to chase fame, or if you enjoy being part of the "scene," you might fit in here. But for me, LA felt like a place where you’re more of a visitor than a true part of the community.

Accommodation stayed: 

Super 8 

20. Orange County

Rating 8 Safety 9 Friendliness  10

A light in the dark 

Discovering Westminster, Orange County: A Hidden Gem of Safety and Friendliness

When you think of Orange County, places like Irvine and Newport Beach might come to mind, but nestled among the well-known cities is Westminster—a quiet, family-friendly area that often flies under the radar. With its sunny Southern California weather and diverse, welcoming community, Westminster offers an appealing blend of safety, warmth, and accessibility. Here’s a closer look at what makes this area stand out.

Safety: 8/10

Westminster’s safety is a solid 8 out of 10. While it’s not as well-known for its ultra-low crime rates as some of its more affluent neighbors, Westminster still boasts a relatively low crime rate compared to many urban areas. Like any city, there are occasional concerns, but overall, it’s considered a safe place to live. The local police department is active and works alongside community initiatives to keep crime in check. For those looking for a neighborhood where they can walk the streets comfortably and feel secure in their homes, Westminster provides a good balance of safety without the hefty price tag.

Friendliness: 10/10

What really makes Westminster shine, however, is the overwhelming sense of friendliness in the community. Whether you're at the local park, a neighborhood café, or attending one of the many local events, it's easy to see that Westminster has a truly welcoming vibe. People here are quick with a smile and eager to make newcomers feel at home. With a mix of longtime residents and newer families, there's a strong sense of community, where neighbors often stop to chat and look out for each other. The community-driven spirit is contagious, and it’s one of the reasons why so many residents are proud to call Westminster home.

It’s conveniently located near major highways, making it easy to access neighboring cities like Huntington Beach, Garden Grove, and Long Beach. Plus, Westminster’s proximity to some of the best shopping, dining, and entertainment in the OC means you’re never far from something to do. The local schools are solid, and the family-oriented atmosphere makes it a great place to settle down.

In summary, Westminster offers a rare mix of safety and friendliness that makes it a standout in Orange County. If you’re considering a move to the area, you’ll find a tight-knit community where the people make all the difference. It’s a place where you can feel right at home from the moment you arrive.

Accommodation stayed: 

Motel 6 

21. San Francisco 

Rating  10 Safety 10 Friendliness 9

Why I Love Pacific Heights: San Francisco’s Hidden Gem

If you’ve ever walked through San Francisco’s Pacific Heights, you know it’s a place that feels almost timeless. There’s something about the neighborhood that makes you want to slow down and take it all in—the grand Victorian homes, the towering trees, and those sweeping views of the Golden Gate Bridge that never get old. But what really stands out about Pacific Heights, for me, is the sense of safety and warmth that seems to wrap around you like a cozy blanket.

Safety: 10/10

 The area is incredibly peaceful, with low crime rates and well-kept streets. I always felt safe. There’s a real sense of security here, not just because of the high-end homes, but because the community genuinely cares about keeping the neighborhood safe. You see it in the neighborhood watch signs, the friendly faces, and the calm atmosphere.

Friendliness: 9/10

One of the things I love most about Pacific Heights is how friendly people are. Sure, it’s an upscale area, and you might expect a certain level of exclusivity, but there’s still a down-to-earth vibe here. Neighbors smile and chat while walking their dogs or sitting in the park. There are local coffee shops and boutiques where the staff remembers your name, and you can always strike up a conversation. Of course, like any place, you might encounter the occasional aloof person, but on the whole, people here are warm and welcoming.

Whether you're thinking of moving to the area or just spending an afternoon here, Pacific Heights has that rare combination of charm, safety, and friendly faces that makes it feel like home the moment you step in.

Heading towards San Francisco, I had been told a lot of negative information from other states, but from what I saw, the city is outstanding and one of the best. Maybe other states should look at their own cities before making judgments on others!

Accommodation stayed: 

Motel capri

22. Bakersfield 

Rating 4 safety 8 friendliness 8

My 1 Day in Bakersfield: A Quick Stop with Unexpected Charm

Bakersfield—probably not the first place you think of when you imagine a trip to California, but I found myself there for a day, and it turned out to be a surprisingly pleasant stop. I didn’t expect much, but the city gave me a quick taste of small-town charm mixed with just enough to keep things interesting.

Safety: 8/10

In just a day, Bakersfield felt pretty safe. I spent most of my time walking around the downtown area, and it felt calm and secure. The streets were busy enough during the day, and there was a clear police presence keeping an eye on things. Nothing really stood out as concerning, and I felt comfortable in the city. Of course, I didn’t venture too far off the beaten path, but what I saw left me with a good impression in terms of safety.

Friendliness: 8/10

One of the highlights of my short stay was how friendly everyone was. everyone was welcoming and eager to chat. There’s a warmth to Bakersfield that’s hard to ignore. People were quick to offer directions, share recommendations, and just generally make me feel at home. It’s not the type of place where people rush past you,

The food scene also caught me off guard. I grabbed a quick bite at a local Mexican spot, and the flavors were fantastic—definitely a highlight of my short trip.

Bakersfield may not be a destination on most people’s bucket lists, but in just one day, I got a good sense of its friendly, easygoing vibe. It’s a small city with big heart—nothing flashy, but enough to leave a positive impression. If you find yourself passing through, it's worth the stop. Just don't expect anything too glamorous; instead, enjoy the simplicity and warmth of a place that keeps things real.

Accommodation stayed: 

Super 8 

23. Barstow 

Rating 7 safety 8 friendliness 9

My 1 Day in Barstow: A Quick Desert Stop with a Lot of Heart

Barstow—often just a pit stop for travelers driving through the California desert, but I spent a day there and was pleasantly surprised. It’s not the kind of place you’d plan a long stay, but it’s got a certain charm, and I found myself appreciating its small-town feel and friendly people.

Safety: 8/10

In my short time in Barstow, I felt pretty safe. The town is small and quiet, with little to no hustle and bustle. I spent most of my time exploring the downtown area, and it seemed like a place where you could walk around without worry. There weren’t crowds or heavy traffic, and the streets felt secure. Of course, I didn’t venture into any sketchy areas, but the main spots I checked out were calm and well-kept. If you’re just passing through or taking a break from a long drive, it’s the kind of place where you can relax without looking over your shoulder.

Friendliness: 9/10

What stood out most in Barstow was the friendliness of the locals. From the moment I got into town, I was greeted with smiles. There’s a real sense of community here—Barstow doesn’t have the pretension of bigger cities, and people seem genuinely happy to meet new faces. It’s a place where you don’t feel like a tourist; you feel more like a guest in a tight-knit town.

I also wandered around Route 66—Barstow sits right along this historic highway, and it’s fun to check out the old-school motels and kitschy attractions that line the street.

The food in Barstow was what you’d expect from a small desert town—nothing fancy, but satisfying. I grabbed a quick bite at a diner, and the meal was simple but tasty. The locals seemed to know where the best places were, and I appreciated how they shared their favorite spots when I asked.

Barstow isn’t a place you’d plan a long vacation, but for a quick, peaceful stop, it’s worth it. It’s got that small-town charm that’s hard to beat, and I was impressed by the warmth of the people. It’s a place where you can take a breath, enjoy some desert views, and find a bit of unexpected comfort. If you ever find yourself passing through, don’t rush—take a moment to enjoy the friendliness and simplicity of Barstow.

Accommodation stayed: 

Route 66 motel 

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